It is said that extraction of wisdomtooth will makes a person more senileor rather more wiser than usual ifyou choose to believe in either waykinda crappy waiting for an answer ananswer that would be vanished in thecrowd an answer waiting for someonewhom you thought it will appear out ofthe blue, an answer waiting forsomeone who never promise to be therebut at your own wishful thinking isnever a regret to behave but then torealize to hate a person or ratherdislike a person could be so easy, ittakes more than anything to love anddislike a person in a second, no oneelse could predict that is silent away to end it? Subjective as a matterof fact that human make mistake,normal person way of believing againstthe abnormal way of making mistakesnature has something to teach us here,it's telling us tat not all seeds willgrow when you plant in life, mostseeds never grow so if you reallywant to make something happen, you hadbetter try more than oncedetermination really count this mightmean you gonna attend twentyinterviews to get one job interviewforty people to find one goodemployee. talk to fifty people tosell one house, one car, one vacuumcleaner, one insurance policy, or abusiness idea and of course, numberof times to persuade a luv one..mind-goggling at this stage ya. and youmight meet a hundred acquaintancesjust to find one special friend orgone through several relationship toknow the essence of luv luv againback to the track!! when we understandthe "Law of the Seed", we don't get sodisappointed we stop feeling likevictims. we learn how to deal withthings that happen to us. Laws ofnature are not things to takepersonally we just need to understandthem - and work with them successfulpeople fail more often but they plantmore seeds, when things are beyondyour control, here's something thatyou must not do so as to avoid miseryin your life: You must not decidehow you think the world should becmon pal is not how you change theworld to suits you, likewise youshould adjust yourself to suits theenvironment, then we talk aboutsuiting the world. you must not makerules for how everyone shouldbehave. When the world doesn't obeyyour rules, you get angry! That'swhat miserable people do! On theother hand, let's say you expectthat: Friends should returnfavours. People should appreciateyou. Planes should arrive on time.Everyone should be honest. Yourpartner or best friend should rememberyour birthday. These expectationsmay sound reasonable. But often, thesethings won't happen! So you end upfrustrated and disappointed. Humannature has a better strategy. Demandless, and instead, havepreferences. For things that arebeyond your control, tell yourselfthat I would prefer "A", BUT IF "B"HAPPENS, IT'S OK TOO!" This isreally a change in mindset, it is ashift in attitude, and it gives youmore peace of mind. You prefer thatpeople are polite ... but when theyare rude, it doesn't ruin your day.You prefer sunshine ... but if itrains, it is OK too! To becomehappier, we either need to change theworld, or change our thinking. It iseasier to change our Thinking! It isnot the problem that is the issue, butrather, it is your attitude attendingto the problem that is the Problem.It's not what happens to you thatdetermine your happiness, it's how youthink about what happens to you....wellno more drinking like a fish didI say that? sigh. Your mind sayingthings reflecting what I mean here ohya, is gonna be Ricks big day, allthe best to the couple, is takes a lotto forgive than forget, or vice versaanyhow congratulations to you Rick!!
